AND WHAT REALLY GETS TO ME IS THAT SHE RECOGNIZES ITS A SKILL THAT CAN BE HONED.. like she chooses to be kind. she chooses to listen. it's never talked about how choosing to be kind despite everything is so hard so it being touched here is so. AHH
LIKE ITS SO IMPORTANT TO ME THAT ITS NOT THAT THIS COMES TO HER NATURALLY. like she actively Wants people to feel comfortable. she literally does everything in her disposal to Ensure whoever she interacts with feels safe with her but she's not a pushover she's still Firm